Updated: Apr 9
It’s been a year since lockdown began, working through multiple postponements and cancellations. But, what happens when it’s because there’s A Bump Before the Bouquet?!
In this month's post we're sharing all the thoughts and feels that come along with A Bump Before the Bouquet, so if you’re reading this and are a couple who are expecting a ‘quarantine baby’ you've come to the right spot!
A bride-to-be of ours shared with us her thoughts and concerns when she initially saw a “+.”
When my save the dates arrived Thursday and the pregnancy test showed a plus sign on
Saturday, the first thing that ran through my mind was, “Oh no...my wedding!”. I quickly did
an online calculator to figure out my due date, and it confirmed that there was no way I was
having an October 2nd wedding with a September 21st due date.
After telling my fiancé and texting a picture of the pregnancy test to my maid of honor, I
was like I need to let Samantha know. She had spent so much time designing our dream
wedding, and now I may need to postpone. I say may because in 2019, we made it 8 weeks
then miscarried. I wasn’t going to get my hopes up. Now (when this blog post goes live, I’ll be
13 weeks) it's definite that my wedding is being postponed until October 2022.
With life’s change of plans for her and her fiancé came many fears, below she shared with us some of her initial thoughts!
Will I still like my wedding dress next year?
Will I be able to lose the baby weight before the wedding?
Will the wedding professionals I booked be able to accommodate my new date?
Will people just expect us to elope and not have a formal wedding?
Will people be upset we had to postpone?
Are people wondering where their save the dates are? They weren’t sent and we haven’t announced the baby news yet.
Will my boss be understanding about maternity leave in the beginning of the year and needing time off for my wedding at the end of the year?
There was obviously TONS of excitement though given the number of wonderful positives, as well!
We’ll be adding an adorable ring bearer or flower girl to our wedding?
Maybe COVID precautions/mask wearing won’t be an issue for a fall 2022 wedding.
We have two amazing things to look forward to in 2021 and 2022.
Our rainbow baby finally arrived on his/her own schedule!!
Whether it was your plan to have a baby or not or whether you’re concerned with what your folks will say because *GASP* you’re having a baby before you’re married, it’s definitely an exciting adventure that you and your partner are experiencing and, without a doubt, those around you will be just as excited (even if there is some slight hesitation at first)! Always remember, you don't have to go the traditional route. It's your life! This is something that is super exciting (despite any waves of nervousness you two may be experiencing).
While usually, we’re hired first for the wedding, we’re always happy to help our couples with making any life events stress free and enjoyable for, not only for them, but also their loved ones! Hiring a wedding planner isn't just about this one big moment, but all the ones after it as well. Just like with wedding planning, we reassure all of our couples that it is your day and it needs to be an extension of who you are - whether it be traditional or not, we're here to guide you in the right direction!
We promise that everything will turn out okay in the end, especially since you and your partner will come away with a new ring bearer or flower girl, even if you intended for there to be no children! ;) ♥️
Xo, The KE Team
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